Hello Loves!
This post comes via a close acquaintance. She has been in a relationship on and off for awhile now for various reasons. Recently she has found that her boyfriend doesn't want to spend time with her anymore. She cooks, she cleans, she's beautiful, intelligent yada yada yada. So what's the problem? The problem is one I've observed when the two interact. I call her Little Miss Argument It's completely routine to witness them in a fight at least twice in one encounter. Why? Because her need for attention has caused her to pick various arguments in effort to hold a conversation.
*Whistle Blow* Unsportsmanlike-Conduct
Why are you arguing in order to get attention? Negative prompting will only lead to a negative response. Sure you have his attention while he's arguing with you, but once it's done he'll do what ever he can to prevent it from happening again (i.e. avoid you at all costs!).
You need to figure out what's really fueling your anger towards him. Why must you pick a fight, even when he's doing nothing wrong? If you can find nothing positive to discuss, why open your mouth? Why be in a relationship with someone that you can't find any good in, or causes you so much grief? Think about it, I'm sure he is.
Love & Flags
Miss Ref
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