Hello Loves!
Here's the scenario: A hunnie bunny is with this particular guy. They've been together for awhile now. Recently she walked up on him with what apparently was one of his "side chicks". Being the aggressive one she is, she flips out on him. However she doesn't want to leave. They have investments. After she is the Main Chick...right?
Hmm...well my loves. I don't support sitting in the middle of a sandstorm. It's hazardous. And let's analyze this Main Chick...Side Chick dynamic.
You're the Main Chick if:
You have been introduced to family and friends
You are called by a title in public
You have been to his house and stayed for more than a night and on a regular basis
You can walk into his house without question
You are given affection in public
You can ask where he is and get an on the spot answer
People speak of you and add that's _______'s girl/wife/lady
His friends and family check on you
You're the Side Chick if:
You never know who he's referring to when he talks about his boys
You've never met the family
You only get texts during the day
You only get calls late at night
Your calls aren't answered on a consistent basis
You ask where he is and he immediately is defensive
You tell him you're in the area and he says he's busy/not around there
You've only spent a few hours at his place at night
He wakes you up so you can go home
You don't know his last name
You don't speak of a future
...These lists are all inclusive but I'm hoping you see my point.
*Whistle Blow* TIMEOUT!
The important thing ladies is to know your place and your worth. Why be a headliner when it should be a one man show? Don't settle or sell yourself short! You deserve his all...to be his only girl/lady/woman. And Side Chicks who know you're side chicks...this applies to you too hunnies. If he's doing it to her, he will do the same to you. Stop with all this sharing...get your own ..he is not a meal. With a partial serving you will never be fully satisfied.
Love & Flags
Miss Ref
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