Woe Is Me

Hello Loves!

Sorry for the gap in posting, I've been quite the busy bee lately. Let's examine today's dilemma.

We have a 21-year old college student in a perpetual rut. This hunnie bunny is having quite the time in all aspects of life. No job, grades that seesaw, and quite a track record when it comes to relationships. "I don't know what to do", they said to me. That's their favorite song to sing WOE IS ME.

*Whistle Blow* Delay of Game!! Baby get it together, this song has been on repeat for awhile.

Life deals us lemons right? Making lemonade of these bad boys can be quite the feat! However my loves we must be willing to put forth the effort to get what we desire. Nothing will just fall into our laps. If you want better grades, find a studying style that suites your personality and lets you hold on to the information. Examine the way you take notes and make adjustments where necessary. Could a total stranger read them and understand the material? Compare your best work to your worst work. What's missing?

Get out there and do some job hunting! Do footwork, look on various sites that offer employment opportunities. For goodness sake hunnie bunny you're in college NETWORK!! This is the place to do it. You would be surprised at the connections your peers and professors have. Pass around your resume and CV. Have people on the look out, but be prepared to do some work on your own. Do not rely on others! They'll give you the key, it's your responsibility to open the door and walk in.

As far as relationships go, step back and take a look at yourself. What do you bring to the table? What pattern of relationships do you find yourself in? What do you want the other person to have? Are you in it for comfort and selfish reasons, or do you really value being in relationships? You have to answer these questions in order to embark on the path to a healthy relationship love.

If you want success in all aspects of live you have to put out the effort and maintain the motivation. You're life is only as successful as you allow it.

Love & Whistles
~Miss Ref